Funeral Flowers Guide

Can’t find the words? Say them with flowers.

Flowers are a traditional and meaningful method of expressing your condolences, and have been part of most major cultures since time immemorial. The sheer number of flowers available, and the range of arrangements that can be sent to a funeral, can make the process of ordering flowers quite confusing. However, it is almost impossible to make a poor choice. Whether you choose a traditional funeral spray or a more modern floral tribute, you can be sure it will be well received by the mourning family.

Funeral flowers come in many shapes and sizes:

Wreath: A selection of flowers in a circular design, symbolizing eternity. Casket Spray: Flowers designed for the top or side of the casket (one sided), typically reserved for family and close friends Basket Arrangement: A selection of flowers contained in a wicker or plastic basket, usually wider than it is high

The type of funeral may dictate what design you choose. It is more likely, however, that you will be able to decide what arrangement you send. Some flowers are more suited to a particular arrangement, so it is worth liaising with your florist to make sure you order exactly what you want.

When it comes to choosing flowers, traditional offerings are obviously tempting. Chrysanthemums, carnations, roses and lilies are all popular and well-received funeral flowers but you should not feel pressured into including them. In many ways it is more important to cater the floral arrangement to suit the deceased. If you know they were particularly fond of a specific type of flower, or a unique floral arrangement, their family will appreciate your thoughtfulness and dedication in their time of need.

Perhaps also consider including a personal note addressed to the mourning family to show that they are on your mind. Most florists will be able to include a note if the flowers are being delivered directly.

Things to remember:

• Casket sprays are sometimes reserved for close friends and family only. You may wish to enquire with the funeral home as to whether it would be appropriate for you to send casket flowers.
• Many florists have substitution policies for flowers that aren’t in bloom; check beforehand so you don’t miss out.
• Most major religions have views on funeral flowers. You should always consider the recipient’s religious beliefs before purchasing. Your florist will be able to advise you.
• Cremations may lend themselves to certain floral arrangements, for example wreaths that fit around the urn
• Charity donations in lieu of flowers are becoming more and more popular. Although a mourning family will still appreciate flowers, bear in mind the charity will most likely be close to their hearts and thus a donation might be better received.

This guide was written by Triangle Nursery, a family owned wholesale flower company based in Thorpe le Soken, Essex. If you’re looking for sympathetic and professional advice on delivered funeral flowers, contact them today.